Boredom in the bedroom is common, but not commonly talked about within relationships. Most couples that become bored, or lose interest, are often together for an extended period of time. Statics show that some couples with this problem often cheat and/or leave the relationship; but why? Why end a relationship that you put so much time and energy into building? Isn’t your relationship worth fighting for? Many couples are afraid to ask their significant other how to fix it and make it right again.
Some studies found that men are most likely to lose interest first because women become “too comfortable” or slack in “taking care of themselves.” Women often comment that men also get too comfortable and/or “they don’t do the things [he] use to do.” For whatever the reason may be, boredom should not play a factor in ending any relationship. Be inspired to be creative, and most importantly, keep it spicy no matter how old you are or how long you’ve been together. Communication is the key.
After surveying several men and women, here are some key things to keep in mind as you think of leaving your relationship when boredom strikes:
Know what makes you happy. Don’t be afraid to share that with your significant other. Tell him/her just what you like and how you like it. Open the line of communication inside and outside the bedroom.
Love yourself and the body you are in. Embrace your beauty. Your beauty is a perfect imperfection.
Shower your significant other with compliments, hugs, kisses, love notes and/or texts, and touches. This is assurance that he/she is still in love.
Wear that sexy lingerie or silk boxers, and dab a little perfume or cologne on your neck before bed.
Play soft music, light some candles, and/or have a glass of wine.
Keep other people out of your business. Your bedroom business is not for your family, friends, or social media. Keep in mind others may be looking for excitement too!
And most importantly, whatever you did to get that man or woman, do the same things to keep that man or woman.